Know yourself2012/12/12 - Author: Marco Neves - No Comments
It is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles;
if you do not know your enemies but do know yourself, you will win one and lose one;
if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle.
the art of war – Sun Tzu
If you’re at war, knowing your enemy is important, bung yourself is equally important.
But at times like ours, where there are no real open enemies, most problems in our individual lives come from incomplete knowledge of ourselves.
Know yourself is important in war, and even more crucial in peace. It’s by knowing yourself that you find what makes you happy, what gives you pleasure to run to, how you would like to live, who you would like to be with…
Only by knowing yourself you can find out what you need and what you have to give.
Most of the time we associate who we are, what we do and where we are with ourselves. We think about those things as if they were our identity, but would we stop to exist if we changed all of that?
Everyone have abilities that could be used in other places, to jobs/tasks completely distinct from those they identify with. And a name is just a name. A rose by any other name would still smell the same.
It’s always ok to present yourself in a way people would remember you – in some cases in a way people expect you to present yourself.
But you don’t have to present yourself to you following any rigid set of rules. Your name and what you do may be a good way to get you in other people minds, but that doesn’t mean you have to build all your identity around those temporary concepts.
Ask yourself… Who are you? What makes you smile? What makes you run? Where do you take your time – what do you like to do quietly, without rushing? Where do you relax? How do you relax?
Ask yourself… What wouldn’t you tell anyone about you? What would you like everyone to know about you?
Ask yourself… What did you learn about yourself today?